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Attracting a soulmate isn't as hard as it seems. Before we get into how you can attract your soulmate, let's find out what exactly soulmates are.
A soulmate is a friend of your soul. In higher realms, you are the best of friends and sometimes lovers. Soulmates often will reincarnate into each other's lives often.
YOU HAVE SEVERAL SOULMATES
Soulmates come in the form of long-term romantic partners, best friends, and close family. Anyone who feels like family to you is probably a soulmate. This isn't to say that all of your blood-relatives are soulmates to you, because that is certainly not the case.
The love you share with a soulmate is something so natural. It isn't fleeting. It doesn't come and go. It doesn't start out on fire and burn out quickly. It is a natural type of love, a comfortable love. In the presence of the soulmate, you will feel 100% comfortable to just be yourself.
Think about anyone in your life who you feel 100% like you can be yourself, talk to them about anything, and never feel like you have to lie or act like someone else. They are probably a soulmate.
A soulmate relationship will be long-term in your life and will come in and exit with ease. A connection naturally forms over time and when you are ready to drift your separate ways or leave this world, it will feel natural. They often last anywhere from several years to a lifetime.
You're probably here to figure out how to attract your ROMANTIC soulmate, so let's get into that
Chapter 1: WHY THE HELL ARE YOU STILL CRYING OVER YOUR STINKY EX?
What in your right mind would make you think that the Universe is going to bring you your soulmate, just for you to fuck it up by talking about your ex (or worse, talking TO your ex)?
How can you fully honor the true love of your life and give them your fullest love and attention if you still have eyes for a past relationship which CLEARLY did not work out.
I hate to break it to you, but YOUR EX AINT SHIT ANYMORE, THAT'S WHY YOU AREN'T TOGETHER.
It's quite possible that your ex was a soulmate. But just because someone is a soulmate does not mean they are the person you are going to spend the rest of forever with.
This world is abundant with soulmates of yours, and there are so many people who you can turn into NEW soulmates!
Get rid of all sentimental items that remind you of your ex. Stop calling them and stalking their Facebook when you get drunk, stop getting sappy about your old memories with them, and mute/block them on social media!
The more energy you invest in your exes, the less energetically attractive you are to other soulmates and love interests.
Chapter 2: GROW UP AND LEARN HOW TO HAVE ADULT RELATIONSHIPS
A healthy adult relationship does not involve any of the following:
- verbal abuse
- raising your voice and getting all big during an argument
- sneaking through your partner's things because you can't trust them
- lying and cheating
- manipulation
- hiding your feeling
- playing mind games
- ignoring the feelings of each other
- disrespecting each others opinions and perspective
A soulmate relationship is so healthy, you should be able to talk to your partner about literally anything without them getting upset. Every single problem in the relationship should be handled calmly and both parties should be solution-oriented.
When I say you should be able to talk about everything, I mean EVERYTHING. Your health, your excessive boob sweat on a summer day, what you want in bed, what you DON'T want in bed, your fears, your opinions, your feelings for other people, the shit that bothers you, the future, the past, literally anything.
Chapter 3: BECOME YOUR OWN DAMN SOULMATE FIRST
I have done thousands of love psychic readings and this is THE MOST common advice Spirit has to offer anyone searching for their soulmate: STOP SEARCHING.
In order to attract a soulmate, you must first recognize the soulmate within you. It's the Law of Attraction! As within, so without!
If you have a hard time loving your own life and enjoying yourself to the fullest, you're going to have an even harder time finding love and fulfillment from a relationship.
"Act as if you'll be single forever and there is no chance you are ever going to be in a relationship. What would you do to make your life as happy as possible?" - Spirit
The above quote channeled in from Spirit is the exact advice given to me 2 weeks before I got into a serious relationship with one of my soulmates (who I am still happily with, we plan on living until 105 together).
I know this quote sounds weird, "but Laura, why would I act as if I'll be single forever, isn't that counterproductive?". IMAGINE if that was the case. Right now, imagine the things you would do if you were single forever. What would you do to keep happy?
Would you work towards buying your dream home, no longer waiting for a relationship? Would you plan that trip you always wanted to take, without waiting around for a partner who would go with you?
Would you get a puppy or kitten? Would you begin planning your pregnancies/adoptions without waiting for your eggs to dry up?
Would you start your own business or dream career?
Go to that new restaurant by yourself or with friends?
Focus on making the best friendships ever?
Spend more time with family?
Would you take yourself on dates and get your cuddle-fix with your teddy bears and kittens? Would you invest in high quality dildos and vibrators and lingerie so you aren't missing out?
DO THESE THINGS NOW! STOP WAITING FOR A RELATIONSHIP, YOUR LIFE I HAPPENING RIGHT NOW.
When you stop waiting around for a relationship to make you happy and you find the happiness that is already within you, a funny thing happens where you actually end up attracting a soulmate faster.
When you are living your individual life to the fullest without waiting for a partner, the light within your soul shines even brighter - thus it will be easier for your soulmate to recognize you.
When you can recognize the soulmate within yourself, your external soulmates will be drawn towards you.
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