How it works
The 3 letters are personalized to thoroughly unpack what has been blocking your manifestations. Here's the format:
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Letter 1: The Reveal
You’ll send me a detailed letter about what’s happening in your life. I’ll ask you to tell me what you want, what’s happening now, what you’ve tried, what feels stuck, and anything else you think I need to understand.
You don't need to make it neat, and you don't need to know what the problem is. Just tell me the truth.
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I'll read your letter carefully and respond with your first coaching letter. This is where I begin looking underneath the obvious problem: What are you actually asking for? What pattern keeps appearing? Where might your actions, beliefs, expectations, or identity be reinforcing the very reality you're trying to change?And perhaps most importantly: What is your life trying to show you?
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I'll give you a personalized practice and a concrete experiment to take into your actual life. Then you go live it.
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Letter 2: The Release
You won't receive the second letter immediately. You'll have time to practice, to notice, to bump into your own resistance, and to see what changes when you stop doing things the old way. You'll then send me a reflection about what happened. What surprised you? Where did you feel resistance? What became clearer? What didn't work? What did you notice about yourself?
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I'll use that reflection to write your second coaching letter. This is where we get into what needs to be released.
Sometimes that's a belief. Sometimes it's an old story. Sometimes it's an attachment to a particular outcome. Sometimes it's the identity you've built around being the person who doesn't have the thing you want. And sometimes, you discover that what you thought needed to change wasn't actually the thing at all.
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I'll give you another personalized practice based on what has emerged, along with another way to begin embodying the shift in your physical life.
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Letter 3: Embody
The final letter is about becoming the person who can actually live the new reality.
 
After another period of integration, you'll send me your final reflection. We'll look at what has changed, what hasn't, what you've learned, and what is becoming possible. I'll write your final coaching letter as an integration of the entire process. Together, we'll identify a new way of relating to yourself and your desire. What does this version of you believe? What do they tolerate? What do they no longer chase? What do they do differently? What do they allow themself to receive? And what do they actually need to do?
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You'll leave with a personalized practice and a simple framework for continuing the work on your own, because the goal isn't for you to need me forever, the goal is for you to learn how to see yourself, and your life, differently.
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The Practical Details!
Your initial email: as detailed as you want up to 1000 words
 
Your two follow-up emails: up to 1000 words
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My coaching emails (delivered as a PDF within email in case you want to print/save them): Approximately 1000-1300 words each
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My response time: typically within 4 days
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Length of the experience: typically 3 - 4 weeks
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Focus: One primary situation, transformation, or desire.
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Is this going to be AI-generated slop?: No, and I please request that you do not use AI either for anything beyond spell/grammar check - I want to talk to the real you!
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This is an asynchronous coaching, so there are no Zoom calls or need to organize schedules. You write when you have something real to say. I thoroughly read and respond with your next coaching letter.
 
Disclaimer: if you stop responding, I will not continue on with your following letters until I hear back from you - even if your response is something simple like "this resonates, please continue", or just a few sentences, that is enough. I understand that sometimes life gets busy, so if you do not have it in you to give a full response, no pressure. But I do need SOME response before proceeding. Coaching is a 2-person process. If 1 month since my first coaching letter to you passes and we still have impending letters, but you stopped responding, I will assume you are forfeiting the coaching. When you purchase coaching, you are reserving space in my schedule, and therefore no refunds can be issued. If for some reason I need to extend the coaching time (rare) I will communicate that to you accordingly. This service is not a replacement for professional psychiatric, medical, legal, or financial care/advice and I am not to be held responsible for any of your actions. This service is only to be used for spiritual enrichment and enjoyment.